I stumbled upon this video like 2days ago and it validates what many have known for years. Face it ladies, times have changed. In the year 2009 I still come in contact with women who gag at the mere thought of inserting a penis into their mouth. Some women believe oral sex is not an important component of sex but men beg to differ. Oral sex can turn sex …into great sex & beyond if skills are properly executed. Which brings me to
PA YOW 101: THOU SHALL TOP HIM OFF.
Firstly, it is all about being in the right state of mind. If you approach fellatio as something that disgusts you or that its more so like doing a chore you minus well not bother doing it at all & yes expect your man to cheat because “what one cutie won’t do another one will” comprende? Women tend to think oral sex is degrading which goes back to the whole mindset scenario, in reality giving head gives you the opportunity to take control, it can provide the one giving it, empowerment with infinite possibilities to be creative and provide amazing pleasure. I actually believe when we take negative attitudes toward our sex life then the true beauty of love and sex is derided. Below are some tips to help elevate the experience for both sexes. I mean obviously you won’t be like lethal lips here, but there’s nothing wrong with working with what you got and improving your skills
1.First and foremost, once again, you have to be in the right State of Mind…Say it with me now “whoooo…Saaaa”. You will never be able to give excellent brain without open-minded desire guiding it.
2. If you weren’t exactly blessed with big lips or have a hard time monitoring your teeth Slide your lips gently over your teeth for smooth sailing. A nigga doesn’t want you to literally CHEW the dick so don’t teeth his shit.
3.Good head involves licking, kissing, usage of your hands, Keeping it lubricated (spit on it) and rubbing the pipe anywhere else on your body (ex breast & mouth) because this provides amazing visual stimulation and remember to multi-task. See, if you are not using other techniques with your tongue, lips, hands and fingers then you are probably giving a rather boring BJ so keep that in mind.
4.You must know your limits. Although the cause of gagging is usually psychological you have to remind yourself to relax your jaw and throat muscles as much as you can. Tensing of the mouth as a nervous reaction when you think the penis is moving to your esophagus will cause your ass to gag for real and even puke which brings me to my next point
5. Deep throating is essential. Deep throating makes the head snug, warm, & wet. Once again the relaxation of your jaw and throat muscles is key. When you come to the decision that you are willing to deep throat make sure to take it one step at a time. Every time you insert the penis in make sure to inch it in farther & farther each time. But hold on, when doing this method you are most likely cutting off your air supply so learn to breathe through your nostrils or take breaks by using your hand b/c you don’t want to mess up the pleasurable flow ya dig? There are lubricants out there for people to use if deep throating is really just not their forte. I have also heard of people using Chloraseptic Throat Spray or children's teething gel. Keep in mind though, if you use something to numb your throat, and you do not put a condom on him, he will be numbed as well.
6. As gross as this may sound, you must remember not to neglect the balls or head. When it comes to the nads do whatever you decide is most comfortable to you, whether it be licking, sucking, or fondling but never leave them just hanging (pun intended). Also always make sure to pay special attention to the head of the dick. See top'ing off is not just about simply massaging the shaft you have to play with the head as well.
7.Lastly, to spit or to swallow that is the question? Point, Blank, Period Semen is not unhealthy, fattening (the average ejaculation is approximately 15 calories), and it will not get you pregnant &It contains calcium so it may do a body good lol. But no, all jokes aside this is a personal decision that should be made by you (or your partner). The ejaculate of someone who ingests lots of red meat, caffeine, alcohol or cigarettes (most men’s diet), may taste more intense than that of a non-smoking vegetarian, but I’m getting off subject here there’s plenty of time down the line for an article on BABY SIPPINING. Although I hear it’s a complete turn on for dudes to be able to cum wherever they please, personally if you ask me this is not SPLASH SEASON so here are a few ways to be discrete without allowing him to make it rain in your mouth & call it a baby shower: You can take it in your mouth and discreetly deposit into a nearby towel-or as your partner approaches climax, withdraw and finish with your hand- and you can even let your partner come on your body and admire the copious amounts of ejaculate(sorry, even i grossed myself out with that one).
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